Note to Self #1

"Reserve judgment until further information is received."

I'm a social extrovert but an internal processor. I usually don't publicize my reflections, but I have become a bit attached to my dear Spielog (you're a good Spielog, yes you are :o)

The above quote is a principle that I'd like to incorporate into my life, gradually (because that's how principles are incorporated.) For the sake of goodness, the Golden Rule, and for my sanity, I'd like to become more thoughtful in my reactions to things. I don't know if it's because of nature or nurture, but I find myself springing to immediate judgments quite often. Emotional reactions 1) Are far easier than rational ones, 2) Feed the delicious sense of self-vindication 3) Are a human curiosity.

I plan on tackling #1 by continuing to develop intellectually and, of course, trying my best to hold myself to the same standard by which I judge "the other." #2 is more difficult, but I will try to realize that being right or wrong is relevant to a situation, but not to my ability to become better (more logical, more tolerant, more understanding.) In other words, proving myself right doesn't accomplish anything in the long run unless I see the big picture. Also, being wrong just makes me a human being. Which brings me to point 3. Emotional reactions will always be a part of the human race. It's not changing, so we might as well make the best of it. Use our powers for good.

I understand I haven't outlined a complete and cohesive worldview here, but it's all I got right now.

Please, if you see me slide on these principles, let me know. That's what friends do, right?

Thoughts?

Jester